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Jersey Moms Pay the Most to Give Birth!

Expectant mamas might want to call a moving van if they live in New Jersey — the Garden State is the most expensive state to have a baby today.

Expectant mamas might want to call a moving van if they live in New Jersey — the Garden State is the most expensive state to have a baby today. While the average US family will pay $9,617 to deliver vaginally and $15,799 for C-section, Jersey moms pay almost double that: $18,372 for a vaginal birth and $26,743 for a Cesarean. They may want to jump on the turnpike and head south a few hours to Maryland, which is the least expensive place to give birth. There, it only costs $5,509 for vaginal deliveries and $6,812 for C-sections.

These hefty price tags don't take insurance into account, and almost 40 percent of LilSugar readers said that their births were completely covered by their insurance plans. Still, if you tack these costs onto the $222,360 it costs to raise a child from birth to age 17, mama may want to start investigating the possibility of growing a money tree in the backyard.

Were you surprised when you received your hospital bill?

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Raising Baby: See If You Know Where the Money Goes

Hold onto your wallets!

Hold onto your wallets! The average cost of raising a child from birth to age 17 (not including college or life insurance) is now a whopping $222,360, a 22 percent increase from 1960 when the US government began collecting such data. And for those mamas who welcomed an addition to their family last year, the costs will increase to $286,050 for the average middle-class family and $475,680 for wealthier ones. According to the US Department of Agriculture's Expenditures on Children by Families, the price of raising a child has increased dramatically over the past 50 years and how the parents distribute their child-rearing budgets has shifted too. Take this quiz to how the money is spent.

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A Generation of Changes in Raising Children

My mom raised four kids so she has a helpful hint for most things that have to do with bringing up children.

My mom raised four kids so she has a helpful hint for most things that have to do with bringing up children. She keeps some to herself and weaves others subtly and not so subtly into conversation. Whether she's nudging me to ask my pediatrition about supplementing my daughter's diet with vitamins or handing me a bag of children's socks (she can't stand that my kids prefer slipping their bare feet into most shoes), I know she is well intentioned.

But, times have changed since my siblings and I grew up. Lots of things are different — from carseat laws becoming more stringent to more women maintaining careers during motherhood — a generation of changes have taken place and it's hard for our mothers to help themselves from thinking that their way is and was the best way.

So I had to laugh when I read Mary Ladd's Granny Manual on The Poop which explores this issue giving examples of how her mom laid her grandson face down in the bassinet, sweetened his food and insists that he is gassy.

Is there any dated advice that your mother dishes?
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Raising Baby: Urban Area or Suburbia?

My kids are sixth generation San Franciscans and since we have so much family here, I can't imagine raising them anywhere else despite the expensive cost of living.

My kids are sixth generation San Franciscans and since we have so much family here, I can't imagine raising them anywhere else despite the expensive cost of living.

But relations aside, this town is a place where just about anything goes so my children have been exposed to different lifestyles, demographics, cultures and cuisines.

On the other hand, I have friends who swear by their decisions to rear their kids in suburbia.

Which did you choose — city dwellings or country roots?

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Is More Expected of Mothers?

As women, our children are with us from the moment of conception.

As women, our children are with us from the moment of conception. But, does a mama's role as the parent "that carries the load" end with delivery?

Or do you think that society, even in this modern day, holds a higher standard for mothers than fathers?

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