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Lying About Your Child’s Age

LilSugar — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 09:00:22 -0700

When it comes to fudging the truth, are kids or adults the experts? Tweens find ways to round up their age to sound older than their actual years while their parents try to slow the aging process and round as their own birthdays pass. At the park the other day, I overheard a woman admitting she flat out lies to her gym about her child's age so they will admit her to the daycare. Her friend claimed they skirt the 2-year-old airline regulation by begging their son not to speak when asked how hold he is - an interesting tactic considering most airlines require a birth certificate upon arrival. Nevertheless, the conversation got me thinking – do you fib about your wee one's age?

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Lil Tip: Make Makeup Work For You

babysugar — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 11:00:13 -0700

There's something magical about makeup that makes youngsters swoon. Perhaps it's their desire to mimic mommy, but lads and lasses alike often love applying blush and eye shadow to their baby faces.

My daughter recently broke out in a rash and I needed to apply special lotion to her face and body. Wary, she shied away saying, "No, no mommy!" Thinking on my feet I said, "It's your makeup." In an instant sat up straight and let me lather the cream onto her peachy cheeks. Smiles all around, I know now that makeup is a powerful bribing tool - even for 20-month-old tots.
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What Lies Do You Tell Your Children?

LilSugar — Mon, 19 May 2008 07:00:32 -0700

I tell my kids that there's a Santa Claus, that the tooth fairy is small enough to fly under a pillow and that the Easter Bunny sometimes sprinkles carrots in their food when they aren't looking. In other words, I lie.

For the most part, I am honest with my kids to a point that is sometimes much to my own mother's chagrin. My daughter understands that cancer kills people because she's been to the funerals of a few of its victims. She knows that kids disappear because she caught a clip of coverage on Madeline McCann. And, that people can break each other's hearts, because friends have come over to talk about their relationship woes. When she asks questions, I tell her the truth in an age appropriate way and the same goes for my son.

To see why I feel fibs are justified, read more.

The world is such a crazy place, I think it's OK for my children to believe in the handful of things that keep them innocent - a jolly old guy sliding down our chimney, a sprite stealing teeth and a rabbit crazy about carrots. What do you lie about?

What's the Biggest Lie You Were Told About Motherhood?

LilSugar — Thu, 08 May 2008 09:00:24 -0700

A friend of mine called me after she gave birth to her daughter and asked, "Why didn't you tell me all the crazy stuff that happens?"

The truth was, as the first in our group to have a child, I had no one with whom to compare notes. And, I didn't want to scare anyone.

I wasn't sure if everyone spotted for months after giving birth or if it was just me who stood in grocery store line two weeks postpartum thinking that my life had changed forever.

And, I didn't know becoming Dolly Parton a few days after delivering was the norm.

To see what happened, read more.

It was an unintentional lie of omission, but once I had my friend to consult it made being a mom (and bringing a subsequent child into the world) all the easier.

When someone said contractions don't hurt or that life after babe is a breeze, we'd call their bluff.

And, make sure to tell our childless friends all the gory, frustrating, beautiful, unattractive and awe inspiring details of motherhood so they can prepare.

While everyone has a different experience once they are with child, most women can recall a fib or two they were told about child bearing or rearing. Tell us yours.

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Babies Having Babies in Bulgaria

babysugar — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 12:00:38 -0800

Sadly teenage pregnancies have become all too common, even trendy in some spots. While movies like Juno make it seem like an American phenomenon, other parts of the world have seen babies having babies for ages. In many countries, the age of consent is as low as 13 or 14. Though it varies by state in America, the average age of consent is 16. So when we hear about an 11-year-old having a daughter, it still shocks the system. When I think of 11-year-olds, I imagine budding girls starting middle school and having their first crush. I think training bras and scrawny legs, not breastfeeding an infant. But that's exactly where one young lady finds herself.

An 11-year-old Bulgarian girl had a daughter in the middle of her wedding festivities. Yes, wedding festivities. The two wanted to tie the knot before the baby's arrival. Apparently it was love at first sight when her 19-year-old fiancé rescued her from a bullying group of lads. The two consecrated their love for each other within a week and unknown to him, she lied about her age so not to scare him off. She immediately became pregnant with his child. Now the two teens are parents to Violeta. The new mommy said, ""I'm not going to play with toys anymore - I have a new toy now."

Sugarbabies: Sushi With a Side of Angel, Please?

babysugar — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 07:00:49 -0800

Can you stand it? Our girl FitSugar was kind enough to share her babes with us in the Sugarbabies group. A creative and crafty mama to boot, she whipped up these fabulous costumes for her girls for their trick-or-treating pleasure. Of the spooky festivities, mommy Fit said:

Halloween was a blast this year. The older they get the easier it is! My older sister wasn't lying. My daughter on the left was dressed against type and is an angel. My older daughter is piece of sushi - tobiko (fish roe).

We adore the nifty gear and the adorable faces inside them. We can't wait to see what they dream up for next year!

Don't forget to share pics of your Halloween cuties in the Sugarbabies group. We're posting the cutest kids from the spooky festivities so submit your photos now!

Lil Links: Try These Tasty Recipes For a Spooky Spectacle

babysugar — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 10:30:16 -0700

18 spooktacular recipes - Parenting
Jenna Elfman drags out her non-maternity gear in a mini - Celebrity Baby Blog
Registry must haves for moms-to-be - Fit Pregnancy
Oye! She's still using a sippy cup in grade school - CafeMom
Holly Robinson-Peete wishes the Travoltas spoke out earlier about autism - ParentDish
Salma Hayek says the pregnancy glow is a lie - Celebrity Baby Scoop
The baby manicure tragedy - The Laughing Stork
Help find these recently missing children - Mom Logic
Do you write down what your kids say? - The Poop
Mother-daughter relationships - Real Simple

Should CPS Investigate the Heene Parents For Child Abuse?

babysugar — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 14:30:34 -0700

In the case of Richard Heene, the acronym UFO may mean something else: Unruly Father Overacts. While the giant Jiffy Pop saucer may have attracted the whole country's attention, it was the parents' history of taking their three children on storm chases that made me raise my eyebrows. While I may have little in common with people who race after hurricanes, I would like to think that moms and dads always have one goal in mind - the safety of their children. Putting babes (unbuckled and all) in the back of the family car to videotape record-breaking gusts of wind and funnels of debris seems flat-out mad. But it was the silver balloon that had Child Protective Services (CPS) questioning the Heene household.

Officially declared a hoax, it seems the larger concern now is making sure the children are being cared for in the best possible environment. One source claims Richard Heene used his sons as pawns to gather media attention. While it may be questionable to parade one's offspring around on television, it is another to ask children to lie and support felony-inducing behaviors. Not only are the boys learning how to break the law, they are being dragged through a media circus and are sure to face judgment thanks to their parents. Do you think CPS should investigate the parents to see if they are guilty of child abuse?

Which Method of Delivery Worked For You?

babysugar — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 08:00:35 -0700

As youngsters, we are led to believe storks drop newborns off in a bundled white sack. At some point in time, wee ones will find out that Santa Claus isn't real and that mama lied about those long necked birds. There are only two ways to enter this world - through the birth canal or slipping through a surgically split belly. In the end, the means of delivery usually doesn't matter to the new mom as long as she's holding her sweet baby in her arms.

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Beware of Extreme Back Pain During Pregnancy

LilSugar — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 04:00:07 -0700

Aches and pains are part of pregnancy, but some are harder to handle than others. The sciatic nerve, which runs from the lower back, through the glutes, and down the back of each leg, is the largest nerve in the body. Because of the nerve's placement under the uterus, it is pressed as the baby grows, often creating sharp or aching pain during pregnancy.

Most women first notice sciatica after spending a significant amount of time on their feet. According to the American Pregnancy Association the best remedies include:

"The simplest remedy is to lie on your side, opposite of the pain. This may help relieve the pressure on the nerve. Avoid heavy lifting and minimize standing for long periods of time. If you experience pressure while standing, try elevating one foot and resting it on something. Swimming may also ease discomfort. You may experience relief by applying heat or cold to the troubled area."

Sciatica isn't considered to be a dangerous condition, but the amount of discomfort it causes does vary. If you experience sciatica for an extended period of time, contact your doctor about possible treatments. A prenatal massage may do the trick for some women, while waiting for the baby to move to a new spot will help others. If you've experienced pregnancy-related sciatica, how did you comfort yourself?