http://www.lilsugar.com Mommy's little helper en http://www.lilsugar.com/1042046 <a href="http://www.lilsugar.com/1042046"><img width=160 height=102 src='http://media.onsugar.com/files/upl0/10/107379/07_2008/thefatherlife.large.jpg'></div></a><p><span class="inline left"></span>Ben Murphy and a couple of his buddies, started a <a href="http://www.thefatherlife.com/" target="_blank">TheFatherLife</a> for dads that love their kids, but aren't willing to surrender themselves. </p> <p>The free online men's magazine covers topics from <a href="http://www.thefatherlife.com/articles/2007/40/" target="_blank">how to help a wife with postpartum depression</a> to <a href="http://www.thefatherlife.com/articles/2008/60/" target="_blank">kids and football</a> for good guys who double as great dads.</p> <ul> <li><b>Who is the lil love of your life?</b><br /> My wonderful wife and our two girls; Emma, age 4 and Erin, 18 months.</li> <li><b>Which came first, the baby or the blog?</b><br /> The baby. TheFatherLife.com actually came about because I had kids and was looking for a men's magazine geared towards fathers --- and there wasn't one. So myself and a couple of friends started TheFatherLife.com!</li> </ul> <p>To see what Ben misses most about his pre-baby days, read more.</p> <ul> <li><b>What was the most shocking part of becoming a parent?</b><br /> No sleep.</li> <li><b>If you could have one aspect of your pre-baby days back, but keep the kids, what would you choose?</b><br /> Being in shape.</li> <li><b>At what moment did you fall in love with your child?</b><br /> Before they were even born.</li> <li><b>Do you have Valentine’s Day plans?</b><br /> Laying low (hey, "doing nothing" is a welcome break from the normal craziness of small children!)</li> <li><b>Anything else you want to add?</b><br /> Ladies, tell your husbands about us!</li> </ul> http://www.lilsugar.com/1042046#comment lil loves of our lifes ben murphy TheFatherLife Fri, 15 Feb 2008 10:00:36 -0800 LilSugar http://www.lilsugar.com/1042046