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Mourning Mother Kelly Preston Won't Speak About Jett Yet

LilSugar — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 09:20:00 -0700

To be predeceased by a child is a parent's nightmare that became the sad reality for John Travolta and Kelly Preston when their son died last January. The Hollywood couple has remained out of the public eye as they lament the loss of their late 16-year-old, Jett. In July, it was announced that Kelly would break her silence and speak out about her devastation on a grief and resilience panel at the California Governor's Conference for Women in October. The mourning mother has since (and understandably) pulled out. She said:

"It is with my sincere apologies that I must pull out from speaking at [the] conference. I am sorry, but I truly believed that I could do it. Otherwise I never would have said that I could. But I am still deeply in the process of healing, and it's just too soon."

If you know parents who have lost a child, here are tips for offering your support.

Kiddie Wellness: Seizures

LilSugar — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 13:00:00 -0800

Jett Travolta, the beloved teenage son of actors, John Travolta and Kelly Preston, died of a seizure. While it is impossible to be with your offspring at all times, you may want to take precaution in the wake of this tragedy if your child suffers from seizures. Dr. Marie Savard explained that though it's unlikely, there are two reasons the episodes can prove fatal.

How to Help Parents Grieving the Loss of a Child

LilSugar — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 06:00:36 -0800

Actor John Travolta and his wife, Kelly Preston suffered a devastating loss on Friday when their 16-year-old son, Jett, died. Being predeceased by a child is a parent's worst nightmare. The mere thought of losing one's offspring is enough to bring a mother or father to tears. The reality is difficult to fathom so finding the words to appropriately comfort someone who is grieving such a loss can be hard. Here are some tips to use in coping with the sensitive task of supporting a parent whose child has died.

Behave naturally
Show genuine concern
Offer love patiently and unconditionally

To see the rest of the suggestions, read more.

Offer hugs or an arm around the shoulder, as appropriate
Sit next to the person who wants closeness
Make it clear that you are there to listen
Express your care and concern
Say that you are sorry about the loss
Say “I love you” if you feel close enough
Talk openly and directly about the person who died
Cry if you feel like crying
Keep in mind that evenings, weekends, anniversaries and holidays can be extra challenging times.

Our hearts go out to the Travolta family.
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Lil Links: Getting in the Halloween Mood With Pumpkin Stencils

babysugar — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 12:30:40 -0700

Fun and spooky pumpkin carving stencils - Parenting
All the single ladies will love this lil man - TrésSugar
Suri Cruise is a prima ballerina - Celebrity Baby Blog
Remember to nurture your marriage, too - CafeMom
Don't let your kids trick -or-treat at this dad's house - ParentDish
John Travolta opens up about son Jett's autism in trial - Celebrity Baby Scoop
8 reasons to make time for family dinner - Health
Cool canteens for babies - The Mommy Files
Have food allergies gotten out of control? - Momversation

Lil Links: Assuming Your Kids Can Attend Parties

LilSugar — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 11:30:00 -0800

Party foul: assuming your kids are invited - YumSugar
Courteney Cox says she and Coco are two of a kind - Celebrity Baby Blog
Should I have another child? - Momversation
How to get your kids to eat healthier - Alpha Mom
Jett Travolta meant a lot to his family - Celebrity Baby Scoop
Gene linked to dad's ability to father sons, daughters - Parent Dish
Get your body back after baby! - Health
Pregnancy can bring on swollen ankles - CafeMom
And the winner of the Santa tantrum award is. . . - The Poop