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&lt;p&gt;The children and their mother live with the grandparents who are overwhelmed and caring for the young charges while their daughter and the infants remain hospitalized.  No comment was made as to whether or not the mother took fertility drugs.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 06:00:06 PST</pubDate>
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 <title>Natalie Portman and Aleph Hit the Slides During a Smiley Park Day</title>
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 <title>Jennifer Garner Sticks Close to Seraphina as Violet Finishes Up Her First School Year</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Jennifer-Garner-Shops-Seraphina-Affleck-Pictures-23271285&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/5/192/1922398/3b0030c7a8d09a85_sera.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Jennifer Garner&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Jennifer-Garner&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Jennifer Garner&lt;/a&gt; gave 3-year-old Seraphina Affleck a piggyback ride into the Brentwood Mart yesterday. The girls picked up a gift and coffee to go and then headed on their way. Later in the day, Jen spent one-on-one time with her eldest daughter, Violet, after school. Jen&#039;s been on a break from acting since giving birth to Samuel earlier this year, though she&#039;s making her debut on the Internet in a new short film. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Jennifer-Garner-Makes-Naughty-Confession-Video-23225684&quot; &gt;Jen stars with Alfred Molina in the Youtube feature Serena&lt;/a&gt;. Their 12-minute film documents a complicated relationship between a serial liar, played by Garner, and her priest, Molina. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Ben Affleck&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Ben-Affleck&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Ben Affleck&lt;/a&gt; and Jen have a few more months to enjoy time at home with the family, including baby Samuel, before they return to work this Fall. He&#039;s starring in and directing the CIA thriller &lt;b&gt;Argo&lt;/b&gt;, due out in October, and Jen shares the big screen with Joel Edgerton in Disney&#039;s &lt;b&gt;The Odd Life of Timothy Green&lt;/b&gt;, which is set for release in August.  &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Lake-Wedding-Inspiration-23247087&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/3/301/3019466/3d466e469c457114_thumb.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;It&#039;s time to celebrate the most romantic season of the year with our first &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Unveiled-See-Our-Featured-Weddings-Enter-Win-Getaway-Two-22199553&quot; &gt;featured wedding&lt;/a&gt;! Each week we will be sharing an inspiring real &lt;span class=&quot;nobrand&quot;&gt;wedding&lt;/span&gt; with insight from the bride on everything from the decor details to the honeymoon plans, as well as lots of gorgeous photos from the big day. Pin your favorites to take part in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://pinterest.com/pin/273664114827341722/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Pinterest contest&lt;/a&gt; - you could win a romantic getaway! Kicking off the series is Tessa and Tyrell&#039;s glamorous Canadian wedding! &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Tessa and Tyrell met as staff members at Camp Firwood in Bellingham, WA, and they tried unsuccessfully to keep the relationship from getting too serious due to all the family ties at the camp. Tessa says, &quot;Since we both have lots of family that has worked at Firwood, our first conversation was about how we could never get married - otherwise all of the Camp Firwood staff would be related!&quot; But just a year later, they began their two-year dating relationship. They were engaged for six months before tying the knot.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Taking place outdoors at Tessa&#039;s family&#039;s home on Lake Okanagan in British Columbia, the wedding had a beautiful, nature-filled backdrop that didn&#039;t require much in the way of decor. &quot;We didn&#039;t really have a theme for our wedding,&quot; Tessa says. &quot;I just wanted it to be elegant. We chose to have it in the evening and have purple, charcoal, and black as our colors. We had lots of damask pattern in the dark colors, which I think helped us achieve the classy/sophisticated look that I wanted.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;See more stunning photos of the wedding and learn more about how it came together now! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Photos by &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.glendurrell.com/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Glen Durrell Photography&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 11:35:55 PDT</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Katherine-Heigl-New-Baby-Adalaide-Pictures-23262697&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/4/192/1922398/5f62da6c90174ed3_hk.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Katherine Heigl&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Katherine-Heigl&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Katherine Heigl&lt;/a&gt; and her mom, Nancy, went out to lunch in LA with baby Adalaide yesterday - see the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/news/meet-katherine-heigls-baby-daughter-adalaide-2012245&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;first pictures of her cute face&lt;/a&gt;! Katherine and her husband Josh Kelley recently welcomed the little girl into the family and announced her adoption earlier this month. The new addition joins big sister Naleigh, who is 3 years old. Katherine and Adalaide have been out and about a few times in the past few weeks, including on &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Mother&amp;#039;s Day&quot; href=&quot;http://www.bellasugar.com/Mother%27s-Day&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Mother&#039;s Day&lt;/a&gt;, which was Katherine&#039;s first as a mom of two. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 11:20:50 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Hey World, Here I Am! 8 Great Personalized Gifts With Baby&#039;s Birth Announcement Info</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lilsugar.com/Personalized-New-Baby-Gifts-23146227&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/4/192/1922664/f7b8b54038cc6f4d_il_570xN.300282322.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;While most new parents send out birth announcements to share their big baby news, we love the idea of sending them something in return to commemorate the family&#039;s most special day. Here, eight great gift ideas that are personalized not only with the new addition&#039;s name or monogram, but also with the all-important details of how he or she entered the world. What better way to welcome a most special little one?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <title>Exclusive Behind-the-Scenes Look at the Novogratzes&#039; New Family Collection For CB2</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lilsugar.com/Novogratz-Family-Rug-CB2-23226153&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=138 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/3/192/1922664/680e9fc229d2181a_DSC_0237.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;They&#039;ve been called &quot;the coolest family in the world,&quot; but for Bob and Cortney Novogratz, just being family is enough. The stars of HGTV&#039;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.hgtv.com/home-by-novogratz/show/index.html&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Home by Novogratz&lt;/a&gt; and mom and dad to seven kids ranging from 3 to 15 have made family their mantra and are now putting it on their designs. The founders of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sixxdesign.com/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Sixx Design&lt;/a&gt; have partnered up with &lt;a onclick=&quot;if (window.shopSensePFlag===undefined) {this.href=this.href.replace(/pid=\d+/,&#039;pid=puid107379&#039;);}return true;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.shopstyle.com/browse/CB2?utm_medium=referral&amp;amp;utm_source=sugar-brand&amp;amp;utm_campaign=23226153&amp;amp;pid=22161&amp;amp;pdata=onsugar1922664,23226153&quot; class=&quot;ss_inline_link auto_link_filter no_shopsense_url_rewrite&quot; title=&quot;Shop for CB2&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;CB2&lt;/a&gt; for a line of products, aptly named FAMILY, that reflect their signature style. According to Bob, &quot;We came up with the idea of FAMILY a long time ago. Maybe six, seven years ago we got some light boxes and made the letters ourselves. We have a big family, so we thought we should really create a family brand, because we didn&#039;t feel like there was anything out there like that.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The first piece, a colorful rug emblazoned with the word FAMILY that appeared on the show last season, will be available at CB2 stores and online in July (starting at $399). We were invited to the Novogratzes&#039; home along NYC&#039;s Hudson River as the family posed with the rug for CB2&#039;s Summer catalog. With Justin Bieber and Fun blasting on the stereo, Cortney negotiated her teenagers&#039; wardrobe issues, separated bickering twins, and goaded all seven kids into smiling for the camera (and yes, plenty of jellybeans and promises to play with her iPhone were used). Between shots, Bob discussed the collaboration with CB2 and decorating with kids. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2012 11:11:48 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>&quot;I&#039;m Not Sure What I Want Anymore&quot;</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/Im-Sure-What-I-Want-Out-My-Relationship-23226764&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media3.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/2/301/3019466/36b27f52bf834d57_main.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;This question is from a &lt;a href=&quot;http://group-therapy.tressugar.com/&quot;  &gt;Group Therapy&lt;/a&gt; post in our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/community&quot; &gt;TrèsSugar Community&lt;/a&gt;. Add your advice in the comments!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I am having a hard time making some big decisions in my life right now. My boyfriend and I are currently long distance, but we were together for over two years before that. After he moved, we stayed together for a while and then broke up for a few months because of the distance and unclear future. We got back together at the end of last year and have been trying to make things work since then. We&#039;re both aware that we need to be in the same city to make things work, and I started making plans to accomplish that. The thing is, I&#039;m not sure I want to leave. Or rather, I&#039;m pretty sure I don&#039;t. I love where I live, I am lucky enough to have an amazing job with advancement potential, and if I do move, I&#039;ll be giving all of that up and starting over.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To add another layer, our relationship is not without its issues. When we were in the same place, there was a fair amount of drama, and in the time we were broken up, I was with someone else, and this has caused trust issues and hurt feelings. In spite of this, we love each other, and I want to marry him and start a family. I know that because of his ties to where he is living now, he will not move, so it&#039;s up to me to go there, and not vice versa. I told myself that the move was something I was willing to do so we could be together, but that I wouldn&#039;t do it without knowing he was really in it and wanted the same future I do.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recently, though, I&#039;ve been feeling like I don&#039;t want to move at all, and wondering why I should be the one to do it if we both want the relationship to work. I guess I&#039;m just trying to figure out if I should end things and hope that we can remain friends, or if I should suck it up and move for a future I hope we&#039;ll have.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Road-Movie-Review-23238189&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/3/192/1922283/736d7446eaa7c1d0_otr.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Required reading for teenagers in America, Jack Kerouac&#039;s &lt;b&gt;On the Road&lt;/b&gt; is now a big-screen film, and the finished product just debuted at Cannes. It&#039;s one of the most anticipated movies to be screened at the Grand Palais - read on to see what we thought.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Who&#039;s behind it?&lt;/b&gt; Walter Salles, of &lt;b&gt;The Motorcycle Diaries&lt;/b&gt;, was tasked with directing the picture, which is of course based on the Kerouac classic. Salles has a long list of stars - at one point, I wondered who &lt;i&gt;isn&#039;t&lt;/i&gt; in this movie. Sam Riley, who had a star-making role in 2007&#039;s &lt;b&gt;Control&lt;/b&gt;, plays the lead role of Sal Paradise, and Garrett Hedlund is his pal Dean Moriarty. &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Kristen Stewart&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Kristen-Stewart&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Kristen Stewart&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Kirsten Dunst&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Kirsten-Dunst&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Kirsten Dunst&lt;/a&gt; have smaller parts as Dean&#039;s love interests, and &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Amy Adams&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Amy-Adams&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Amy Adams&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Viggo Mortensen&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Viggo-Mortensen&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Viggo Mortensen&lt;/a&gt;, Tom Sturridge, Steve Buscemi, &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Elisabeth Moss&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Elisabeth-Moss&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Elisabeth Moss&lt;/a&gt;, and many more have other cameos. The production has been in the works for decades. Francis Ford Coppola secured the movie rights back in 1980.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;What&#039;s it about?&lt;/b&gt; It&#039;s the beat generation in the USA during the 1940s, but Sal Paradise can&#039;t seem to get past his writer&#039;s block. Sal takes up with a group of friends who love drinking, talking, dancing, and moving. Dean Moriarty enters the picture and offers adventure. He likes to move around the country, not caring where the money comes from or which hearts he breaks. Sal&#039;s a devoted friend to Dean, and they travel the country meeting up with friends, family, strangers, and going wherever the road takes them.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;To read what I thought, just &lt;a href=&quot;/Road-Movie-Review-23238189#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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