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Art

What Happens When We Touch Strangers

Artist Richard Renaldi knows that most of us don't want to talk to strangers, let alone touch them, and he's using that reluctance to make intriguing photography.

Artist Richard Renaldi knows that most of us don't want to talk to strangers, let alone touch them, and he's using that reluctance to make intriguing photography. Since 2007, Renaldi has been traveling the country and asking strangers to touch each other. According to his website, the objective of his Touching Strangers project "is to introduce an unpredictable variable in a very traditional photographic formula, to create a spontaneous and fleeting relationship between complete strangers in front of my 8x10 view camera."

An NPR piece on Renaldi's work caught my attention today, and got me wondering if he's noticed that people are more or less willing to touch strangers based on their geographical location. So I asked Renaldi, who told me: "People in the country and on the West Coast have more time and are a little more relaxed than in the cities."

The photos capture different reactions to the request. Most often the strangers hold hands or put their arms around each other's shoulders, but sometimes the interaction is more intimate, making the viewer surprised that the subjects have never met.

community

Lil Community: What Would You Do If a Stranger Tried to Punish Your Child?

Motherhood can be a mind-boggler.

Motherhood can be a mind-boggler. This post comes to us from lola82, who asked members of The Mommy Club what they'd do in this situation.

Hello Mothers, I have a story for you! Since I have no children I'm curious about how'd you react in this situation.

This morning on my way to work, I braved the rush hour crush on the bus in the normal way, by tuning everyone out and reading the morning news on my phone. Usually my 20 minutes en route is uneventful, but today I witnessed an all-out fight between an elderly man and a mom with a young toddler.

To learn what led to the fight, read more

community

Lil Community: Hands Off My Belly!

A whole lot can happen once a woman's pregnant.

A whole lot can happen once a woman's pregnant. This post was submitted by member cheekyredhead in our Why Didn't Anybody Tell Me? group.

A pregnant belly must be a weirdo magnet. Strangers who otherwise would have ignored you completely suddenly feel compelled to grab your belly. Why is it okay to be groped by people you don't even know? When pregnant, my husband and I went into Nordstrom and suddenly a man appeared out of nowhere, fell to his knees and put his head on my belly. Astonished and in shock I stood there afraid to move. My husband asked me if I knew the guy and I shook my head NO.

"Get off my wife!" my husband demanded. The guy seemed to finally realize how inappropriate he was and immediately got up and took off. I felt like I needed to go home and shower. Why is it that people, strangers, seem to think that it is okay to grope a pregnant woman's belly? It happens in elevators, grocery stores, and public places everywhere. People at church even seemed to think it was perfectly okay to take liberties with my belly. Seriously....I don't get it. I can't be the only woman this has happened to.

We love hearing your stories about all the surprising things that happen in motherhood. Share your experiences in our Why Didn't Anybody Tell Me? group. Your post may be featured on LilSugar!

parenting

What Would You Do?: Stranger "Chewed Out" My Child?

What happens when a parent acts like a child?

What happens when a parent acts like a child? We were at a private jumpy house party when my son came running over to me in hysterics— choking on his words and pointing in the direction of the blow-up slide he had been on. Before I could calm him down to figure out what happened, the grandfather of another partygoer came over to tell me that he had "chewed out" my 3-year-old because he had pushed the man's granddaughter on the bouncy stairs. Almost as a reflex and before I could comprehend the situation, I had my son say sorry for his alleged behavior.

It was only after a few minutes, and we had been ushered into another playroom that the man's inappropriate behavior began to sink in. Who "chews out" a preschooler and where did this guy (a complete stranger) get off disciplining my child? It was then that a representative approached me about the "incident" that had occurred. I apologized to her saying I hadn't seen what had happened because I was on the opposite side of the slide waiting for my kiddo to come down. As it turned out, she had witnessed the entire thing and wasn't concerned with my child's behavior, but that of the grandfather. To find out what he did and why I was perplexed, read more

Poll

Would You Make Out With a Stranger on a Plane?

This Gossip Girl sneak peek clip (see BuzzSugar for more of them) shows Nate and a mystery girl reminiscing about their in-flight makeout session.

This Gossip Girl sneak peek clip (see BuzzSugar for more of them) shows Nate and a mystery girl reminiscing about their in-flight makeout session. Apparently, they were seated next to each other and decided — why not?

I've had friends who told me they did this — and more! — on international or long cross-country flights. In theory, it sounds kind of exciting, but I am almost always seated next to a) a crying baby, b) a person too eager to tell me her life story or c) an old dude with halitosis. So I'm afraid I have no exciting stories to tell.

If you were seated next to a super-hot person you were having great conversation with, would you consider it?

Advice

I Need Your Help . . . Company Calls, Puppy Answers by Biting

As much as we may talk to them, sadly our pets can't talk back.

As much as we may talk to them, sadly our pets can't talk back. So, there can come a time when a precious pal behaves in a baffling way, leaving us to speculate what's caused the change. The cute Penny, a three-year-old Min Pin rescue, has begun showing aggression towards strangers visiting her home for the past few months. TeamSugar member aembry396 explains:

Penny has taken to biting – well, trying to bite as thankfully pants and shoes get in the way – some people who come into my apartment. Usually it's people who have cats, but yesterday she attacked a friend who she has met before for no reason that I can think of. This time she actually bruised someone (no skin broken and we are not even really sure if it was the teeth that did it).

Since we rescued her from a puppy mill rescue league last fall, we are still learning new things about her. However, this seems like such a behavior change. Do you have any ideas why she might be doing this and how to help her not do it again?

Let's put our heads together and try to come up with some suggestions in the comments below!

Liv Tyler

Movie Preview: The Strangers

Click to ReadMovie Preview: The Strangers I'm currently working on my full review of The Strangers, starring Liv Tyler and Scott Speedman but I'll go ahead and tell you now: it's so scary!
Click to Read

Movie Preview: The Strangers I'm currently working on my full review of The Strangers, starring Liv Tyler and Scott Speedman but I'll go ahead and tell you now: it's so scary! I'm posting the full trailer here today to get you scary movie fans pumped up, and to remind you that there are some cool, smaller movies making their way into theaters nowadays besides the big blockbusters.

Dogs

Creating a Play Routine May Help Pup Adjust to Strangers!

Do you have a playful pup that seems to have one thing on his mind (maybe two .

Do you have a playful pup that seems to have one thing on his mind (maybe two . . . after yums)? Well, according to a new study, experts say that the desire to play can often overtake any other instincts, like fear, in dogs. So, after a routine of games were established with a pampered pet, even strangers could get a dog to come play. The study examined 68 well-adjusted pups that had obedience and agility training, lived in their owner's homes, and were well cared for in addition to six factors that the researchers examined. Learn what these were – and the results – when you read more