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Should You Pay Your Teen For Good Grades?

Do report card rewards work?


Do report card rewards work
? Circle of Moms member Jen G. ponders this question after hearing from her son’s teacher that he’s been having behavior issues in school, such as turning in assignments late and talking out of turn. "We’ve tried grounding [him] from the computer, video games, TV, etc., but that doesn’t seem to work," she says, asking the Circle of Moms community whether incentives would provide better motivation for him to improve his behavior and get better grades.

Evelyn W., too, is on the fence about offering payment for good report card grades. "While I think it's OK some of the time to reward for good grades altogether, I think it’s not teaching the kids that hard work is reward itself," she says. If you're similarly weighing the merits of offering your teen or tween money for good grades, then consider the following suggestions from other moms.

Keep reading for five key points to consider.

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How Do You Reward Your Child?

Many parents reward their children monetarily for deeds well done.

Many parents reward their children monetarily for deeds well done. For some, a high scoring report card may warrant a wad of cash or a shopping trip while others may delight in dinner with the family or a movie night.

Shiny new gifts can sometimes be exciting, but what some children crave more than anything is attention and affection. I will certainly do my fair share of material spoiling, but the moments that I look forward to more than anything are family celebrations that require little cash and lots of love.
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