We asked four of our favorite mommy and daddy bloggers to answer a few questions about parenthood and the lil loves of their lives — their children — for Valentine's Day. In case you missed their honest and witty answers, check out our slideshow to see all that they had to say!
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Peter Hartlaub of The Poop
As part of our Valentine's Day coverage, we've asked fellow mom (and dad) bloggers and writers to share their thoughts on parenthood and the lil loves of their lives — their children — with us.
You may remember the witty Peter Hartlaub, founder of The Poop and San Francisco Chronicle Pop Culture Critic from last year. This year he returns to offer up more thoughts fatherhood. He's the proud papa of Theo, 3 ½, and ten-month-old Milo.
lilsugar: Why didn’t anybody tell me (fill in the blank) about fatherrhood?
Peter Hartlaub: I'd have to remember the name of every “Bob the Builder” character? And just when I think I’ve seen every talking cement mixer, bulldozer and backhoe, some creepy scarecrow thing shows up. (At least my sons aren’t into Thomas the Tank Engine. That habit can cost a parent a few grand per year.)
lilsugar: You know you’re a father when (fill in the blank)?
Peter Hartlaub: You’re making up completely random games just to keep your kids from driving their mom crazy. Our favorite one right now is called “mechanical bull.” I lie on my back, my older son crawls on my knees, and he tries to hold on longer than John Travolta did in “Urban Cowboy.” This is good for about eight minutes of distraction, and untold future chiropractor bills.
To see the rest of Peter's answers, read more
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Charlene Prince Birkeland of Yahoo! Shine Parenting
As part of our Valentine's Day coverage, we've asked fellow mom (and dad) bloggers and writers to share their thoughts on parenthood and the lil loves of their lives — their children — with us.
Today's mama is Charlene Prince Birkeland of Yahoo! Shine Parenting, and crazedparent. Her two boys, Nolan, 7, and Quin, 3-1/2, keep her busy!
lilsugar: Why didn’t anybody tell me (fill in the blank) about motherhood?
Charlene Prince Birkeland: Why didn’t anybody tell me that my teeth would go into a dental tailspin after being pregnant.
lilsugar: You know you’re a mother when (fill in the blank)?
Charlene Prince Birkeland: You know you’re a mother when your kid throws up on you and you don’t dry heave at the smell. But if another kid did it, you'd run to the nearest bathroom.
lilsugar: The best trick my mama taught me was (fill in the blank)?
Charlene Prince Birkeland: The best trick my mama taught me was how to swear in Spanish so the kids don’t know what I’m saying.
lilsugar: Helicopter mom or free-range kids?
Charlene Prince Birkeland: Helicopter mom or free range kids? A slight mix of both, but I lean more towards the helicopter-mom side. (Something else I got from my mom . . . and dad.)
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Rebecca Woolf from Momversation
As part of our Valentine's Day coverage, we've asked fellow mom (and dad) bloggers and writers to share their thoughts on parenthood and the lil loves of their lives — their children — with us.
Today's mama is Rebecca Woolf of Momversation, Girls Gone Child, and Straight From the Bottle. She's also mom to Archer Sage, 3, and Fable Luella, 4 months.
lilsugar: Why didn’t anybody tell me (fill in the blank) about motherhood?
Rebecca Woolf: Why didn't anybody tell me that motherhood gives every man, woman and child the right to give unsolicited parenting advice. (Ahhhh!!!)
lilsugar: You know you’re a mother when (fill in the blank)?
Rebecca Woolf: You know you're a mother when the high heels in your closet start collecting dust bunnies.
lilsugar: The best trick my mama taught me was (fill in the blank)?
Rebecca Woolf: The best trick my mama taught me was to support my child's endeavors no matter how ridiculous or seemingly unattainable.
lilsugar: Helicopter mom or free range kids?
Rebecca Woolf: Whatever gets you through the day.
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Zoe Singer of Fit Pregnancy
As part of our Valentine's Day coverage, we've asked fellow mom bloggers and writers to share their thoughts on motherhood and the lil loves of their lives — their children — with us.
Today's mama is Fit Pregnancy's Mom Appetit blogger, Zoe Singer who has 9-month-old son, Leo.
lilsugar: Why didn’t anybody tell me (fill in the blank) about motherhood?
Zoe Singer: That breastfeeding is really, really, really hard for a long time. And really, really, really worth it for a way longer time.
lilsugar: You know you’re a mother when (fill in the blank)?
Zoe Singer: Let's see, there's the first time you clean off your child's face with your own spit. There's those days when you dress up the baby in his fanciest coordinating outfit complete with useless little shoes and a bib that says something witty, then you throw an old maternity sweater over the jeans you've been wearing for 2 weeks and go to meet a friend without brushing your hair. Or there's the morning when you go to move the car holding a set of plastic rainbow keys.
lilsugar: The best trick my mama taught me was (fill in the blank)?
Zoe Singer: Pretend you couldn't care less about TV and your kids won't either (well, at least I never did, and I'm hoping Leo won't). We never even glance at the TV now...until Leo is fast asleep.
lilsugar: Helicopter mom or free range kids?
Zoe Singer: Well, I'm striving for balance, so sometimes I hover needlessly, and sometimes I blink and all hell breaks loose.
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Lisa Weber of Celebrity Baby Scoop
If you're interested in the who's who of lil Hollywood, blogger mom Lisa Weber runs Celebrity Baby Scoop which dishes out celeb sightings and other tidbits daily.
- Who are the lil loves of your life? I have three lil loves of my life - Grace, 6, Abby, 5, and Graham, 3
- Which came first, the babies or the blog? The babies came first, I started the blog when my youngest was 1 1/2.
To find out what shocked Lisa most about motherhood, read more
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Kate Ward of The Nest Baby
From kick counts to sleep tracking, The Nest Baby is a destination for new parents and parent-to-be.
Created by The Knot, the site is the logical progression for couples who have settled down and are planning new additions. And, editor Kate Ward is currently enjoying her own brand new bundle of joy.
- Who is the lil love of your life?
Audrey (middle name Elizabeth) — she's just under 4 weeks old. Born on 1/20/08. - Which came first, the baby or the blog?
I started working at TheNestBaby.com before the baby came. Thank goodness too, because we have a ton of really talkative and helpful members who have saved my sanity at 1am on more than one occasion during my pregnancy and even more so now that Audrey is here. It's a relief to know that no matter what I'm going through there's someone on there who has already been there or is going through the same thing now.
To see hear about the moment Audrey stole Kate's heart, read more
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Celeb Baby Blog's Danielle Friedland
When it comes to Tinseltown's tots, Danielle Friedland, founder of Celebrity Baby Blog is in the know. The blogger and her team keep close tabs on the stars and their offspring.
- Who is the lil love of your life? Anya will be 29 months old on Valentine's Day.
- Which came first, the baby or the blog?
The Celebrity Baby Blog was my first baby. - What was the most shocking part of becoming a parent?
How unrelenting it is. You are ALWAYS on duty. Even though Anya finally sleeps through the night (most of the time), I still wake up every few hours because it's wired in me to be alert. - If you could have one aspect of your pre-baby days back, but keep the kids, what would you choose? I think I miss sleep most of all.
To hear about the moment this mom fell in love with her daughter, read more
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Sabrina Weill of MomLogic
If you're a harried mama looking to keep up with what's current, check out MomLogic. The "online magazine for thinking moms who don’t have time to think" is a place to catch up an all of the day's motherly highlights. And, Sabrina Weill is editor-in-chief.
- Who is the lil love of your life? Please include the names and ages of your children.
Of course my kids are tied for this award: Jack is 6 and Millie is 3. Jack was my first lil’ love. I’m nuts about him. I was worried about having a second because, how could we love another kid as much as we loved Jack? But, you do. Sounds totally corny but it’s true, it’s like someone sticks a bicycle pump in your heart and blows it up another 50%—literally! Mommy-love is very physical, it actually hurts. - Which came first, the baby or the blog?
The baby, but I wish MomLogic.com was around before I had my kids, because what no one tells you is how isolating motherhood can be. Having a child connects you to the community and brings people to you but no matter how supportive your family, community, and husband are, mothering is, in so many ways, something you do alone. It’s vital to have an online mom-sisterhood to keep you in the know, in the loop, and help you feel connected.
To see what Sabrina thought the most shocking part of parenthood has been, read more
Lil Loves of Our Lives: Three-Martini Mom Christie Mellor
Author Christie Mellor hit a nerve with parents when she wrote The Three-Martini Playdate: A Practical Guide to Happy Parenting.
And, then mothers lined up to purchase her second book, The Three-Martini Family Vacation: A Field Guide to Intrepid Parenting when it hit the shelves. Now the author, actress, and mother pens The Three-Martini Complaint Department for Mommy Track’d.
- Who is the lil love of your life?
I won’t play favorites; they’re both pretty okay. Edison is now 16, and although he never got the “start acting like a total jerk” memo, he’s right on target with the “stay up too late and spend many, many hours in front of the computer I.M.ing friends and learning guitar chords” memorandum. But he’s kind, and good to his little brother, and still hugs me goodbye in the morning. Atticus is a strong-willed and interesting 10 year old, who loves his big brother and still likes his mom and dad. But he has a certain glint in his eye that promises hardships ahead. - Which came first, the baby or the blog?
First the babies, then the books. The Three-Martini Playdate and The Three-Martini Family Vacation. Then I became a lazy, intermittent contributor to The Mommy Track’d site. - What was the most shocking part of becoming a parent?
The whole thing is pretty much a giant surprise. But the biggest surprise was: five years into our first child, we decided to have another one, having forgotten completely about the sleep thing, and the endless diapers. Honestly, it all came back to me a few hours after giving birth. Oh! Right! Forgot about that! No sleep for two years and tons of diapers to change!
To learn more about Christie, mix yourself a martini and read more
