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Health and Fitness

Do Kids With Older Dads Live Longer?

If your kids have an older dad, there may be some unexpected perks in store for them.

If your kids have an older dad, there may be some unexpected perks in store for them. According to a new study out of Northwestern University, the offspring of older fathers just may have a life expectancy advantage over the rest of us.

"If your father and grandfather were able to live and reproduce at a later age, this might predict that you yourself live in an environment that is somewhat similar — an environment with less accidental deaths or in which men are only able to find a partner at later ages," said Dan T.A. Eisenberg, lead author of the study. "In such an environment, investing more in a body capable of reaching these late ages could be an adaptive strategy from an evolutionary perspective."

The study found that children with older dads inherit longer telomeres (the DNA found at the ends of chromosomes), which have been shown to promote slower aging. The connection between the father's age and telomere length is cumulative across multiple generations.

The researchers did note that their study should not be taken as a recommendation that men make a concerted effort to reproduce at later ages, as previous research has shown that older fathers are more likely to pass along harmful mutations to their offspring at the time of conception, which can lead to increased rates of miscarriage and other health issues. However, "These new findings suggest that there might also be underappreciated benefits to having an older father or grandfather," said Christopher W. Kuzawa, coauthor of the study.

The results of the study may bode well for many Hollywood dads, like Clint Eastwood, who welcomed his seventh child at the age of 63, and Michael Douglas, whose youngest was born when he was 59.

Songbirds: 10 Dads Who've Written Songs For Their New Babies

Well that didn't take long!

Well that didn't take long! Just hours after the birth of baby Blue Ivy Carter, the hip-hop princess's daddy has released an incredibly sweet song about the lil one. Jay-Z hit the airwaves today with "Glory," a four-minute ode to his newborn daughter. In the song Jay-Z raps that, "Words can't describe what I'm feeling, for real!"

Jay-Z isn't the first dad to sing about his love for his new baby. Some of the music world's biggest stars have written hit songs about their hours- and days-old tots. Check out our list and tell us: which new father's song is your favorite?

Toys

Harry Connick, Jr. Knows Who's the Boss in His Female-Dominated Home

Living in a house full of women has taught Harry Connick, Jr. a thing or two over the years.

Living in a house full of women has taught Harry Connick, Jr. a thing or two over the years. Most of all, the crooner, actor, and activist has learned to be quiet and listen.

The father of three — Georgia, 15, Sarah Kate, 13, and Charlotte, 9 — is now hoping that others will do the same. He and his middle daughter, Kate, are working with American Girl to introduce the dollmaker's two newest dolls Cécile and Marie-Grace from 1853 New Orleans — and raising money for after-school programming for children at the Ellis Marsalis Center for Music in NOLA. The father-daughter duo wrote and recorded "A Lot Like Me," based on the message of diversity that streams throughout the new dolls' accompanying books. Each time the song is downloaded, a donation is made to the music center. I recently spoke with the duo about working together and life at home.

LilSugar: Kate, what was it like working with your dad?
Kate Connick: It was great! It’s always fun working with my dad no matter what we do. It was really cool, because we got down to business. And he helped me not only as a dad, but working too.

LS: Harry was it a dream come true working with your daughter?
Harry Connick, Jr.: It's one of those things where before I had kids I would dream about what it was like to have kids and now that I have three girls, it's such a blessing. I never really thought about the prospect of having any of them want to do anything similar to what I do, but Kate's shown interest from early on. To not only have the pleasure of hearing her sing, but to be able to work with her — Kate's very serious and she has a really hard work ethic — it's a joy, I love it!

LS: The books in the new series and the song all celebrate diversity. Harry, you grew up in the diverse world of New Orleans. How do you instill the importance of such diversity in your kids?
Harry Connick, Jr.: We live in Connecticut now, and Connecticut is not as diverse as New Orleans by a long shot. I've told them for a long time that this is kind of a brown world we live in and [where] we live in Connecticut is not by any means representative of the world. So Kate's been to Asia, to Africa. She’s been all over the world, and she sees that this is a diverse world. The music that I play is also very diverse. The musicians that I play with come from different backgrounds, so Kate's pretty steeped in that.

LS: Harry, with three daughters, you're constantly surrounded by women. What's the best part of living in a female-dominated home?
Harry Connick, Jr.: I stay quiet, and I listen. Is that right?
Kate Connick: Oh, yeah.
Harry Connick, Jr.: I mean, who’s the boss of our house?
Kate Connick: Mom
Harry Connick, Jr.: Yeah!.

LS: Kate, do you guys ever gang up on him?
Kate Connick: No, he’s the only guy in the house, so we help him out.

Keep reading to see how Harry works family into his busy schedule, and how he answers our Four Lil Questions.

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Twitter Dads to Add to Your Must Follow List: Playground Dad

It's nice to get a guy's perspective so I'm spotlighting Twitter dads that should be on every mama's must follow list.

It's nice to get a guy's perspective so I'm spotlighting Twitter dads that should be on every mama's must follow list.
Playground Dad (@playgrounddad) is a Bay Area based blog for fathers who want to have quality time with their kids. It features cool profiles with everyone from Founder of Clek Chris Lumley to a co-creator of Paul Frank, Ryan Heuser. The site also offers practical tips like 5 reasons your kids will love your new iPad and personal takes like their What My Dad Did Right series.

Father's Day

Like Father Like Daughter: What We Share With Our Dads

Who's your daddy? Is he anything like you?

Who's your daddy? Is he anything like you? We all take traits from our parents, both good and bad. This week, in honor of Father's Day this Sunday (did you buy a card yet at least?), I'm wondering what your father gave you in terms of personality quirks, physical characteristics, and other common bonds. The answers ranged from a shared love of Tolkien to traits you wish you could shed. Here are some of the most fascinating answers.

  • I'm a little female clone of my dad! We have the same face, same frame, same blue eyes and really light skin . . . we also have the same propensity to break bones, which sucks, and the same need for alone time. My daughter is a little female clone of HER dad, too. — Girl Jen
  • When I was a child, I was playing Nintendo, and my dad came in from a run all sweaty. I remember thinking to myself, "I'll never be that boring! It's all he ever talks about!" Now, I also have a deep passion for running, the joke was on me! — spacekatgal

Read on for six more, good and bad.

Father's Day

What Do You Have in Common With Your Dad?

If the greeting card industry is to be believed, dads are simple creatures who require nothing more than ties, golf, and the remote control.

If the greeting card industry is to be believed, dads are simple creatures who require nothing more than ties, golf, and the remote control. But of course, dads are just like the rest of us, full of complexities, quirks, and talents.

Malia Obama shares her dad's lanky frame but also his tendency toward team sports, as the pair proved this weekend when the president came to his daughter's soccer game. Some women share such common aptitudes with their fathers that they go into the same professions, while others have little more than a last name in common. In honor of Father's Day on Sunday, tell us: how are you most like your dad?

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BabySugar Diaries: Dad Camp Turns a Critical Eye to Fathers

After two seasons of tears, fights, and gut-wrenching decision making, MTV's younger sibling is turning the cameras from pregnant teen moms to the 20-something men who often put them in their expecting way.

After two seasons of tears, fights, and gut-wrenching decision making, MTV's younger sibling is turning the cameras from pregnant teen moms to the 20-something men who often put them in their expecting way. With last night's premiere of Dad Camp, VH1 turned to its familiar "rehab" formula to whip six soon-to-be fathers into shape.

The boozing, drug-abusing, and womanizing boyfriends will go through relationship therapy and baby prep classes, in hopes of becoming responsible and caring fathers in time for their lil ones' arrivals. At the end of the 30-day experiment, the expectant moms will decide if the men can remain involved in their children's lives. Though the show features the usual reality show fare (there are enough screaming matches and tears to fill a week's worth of reality programming), the show's central message — the importance of male influences in kids' lives — is respectable, even if the participants themselves are not. Did you tune in to Dad Camp last night? If so, will you continue watching?

Photos copyright 2010 VH1

Music

Papa Wasn't a Rolling Stone: Sweet Dad and Daughter Songs

Even when women grow up, they are still daddy's little girl.
Father-Daughter Songs

Even when women grow up, they are still daddy's little girl. We've compiled a few of our favorite songs that explore that priceless relationship between father and child. Some tunes are a little country, and others are soulful, but these artists sing the sweetest fatherly thoughts and advice on raising daughters.

Poll

Should Dads Stay Out of the Delivery Room?

My, how times have changed.

My, how times have changed. Ages ago, men were expected to sit in the waiting room at the hospital. Cigar in hand, pacing the floors, they were retrieved when their wives finally gave birth to their little bundles of joy. Fast forward a few decades and the fathers are the biggest cheerleader in the room yelling, "Push honey! You can do it. You're doing great!" Just when it seems entering parenthood as a team is the norm, a French doctor claims it should be done by the woman in a solo environment. Obstetrician Michel Odent believes a male presence can complicate the labor. He said:

Having been involved for more than 50 years in childbirths in homes and hospitals in France, England and Africa, the best environment I know for an easy birth is when there is nobody around the woman in labor apart from a silent, low-profile and experienced midwife... Oxytocin is the love drug which helps the woman give birth and bond with her baby. But it is also a shy hormone and it does not come out when she is surrounded by people and technology. This is what we need to start understanding.

So what do you say — bring papa in or take him out?

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When Mom's Away, the Kids Will Play

Mommy's going on vacation without the wee ones leaving daddy in charge.

Mommy's going on vacation without the wee ones leaving daddy in charge. While many fathers are beyond capable of manning the house on their own, they often times need to be prepped like they're going into war. An instruction manual with schedules spelled out, babysitter information and playdate contacts are filed away for safe keeping should mother not answer the urgent call. But little does mom know...when she's away, the kids will play... at least differently from their usual routine.

Many pops are less than skilled in their cooking abilities, which means trips to McDonald's are common. A happy meal and a ball pit all in one — what could sound better? While the babysitter may only visit the house on a typical Saturday night, she may be invited to keep the crew company all day so that dad can get some sane alone time to check a few things off his to-do list. And if he's feeling in a social mood, he may just rent a jumpy house for the heck of it and invite his momless buddies and their kiddos over for some brews and lemonade. And on any given day, solo dads and their offspring can be found wondering around amusement parks as they provide endless hours of entertainment and food. Some fellows take the kiddos to the ballpark or the museum for a lesson in sports or ancient artifacts.

What does your man do with your kids while you're catching up on some Mom-Me time?