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Show Your Support For Sandy Hook Moms This Mother's Day

This Mother's Day, amidst the wishes for quality time with our kids and breakfast in bed, we're remembering the moms who faced unfathomable tragedy this year.

This Mother's Day, amidst the wishes for quality time with our kids and breakfast in bed, we're remembering the moms who faced unfathomable tragedy this year. On Dec. 14, 2012, 26 lives were lost in the senseless act of violence that occurred at Sandy Hook Elementary School.

"For too many mothers across the country, Mother's Day is sadly not just a celebration of their motherhood, but also a time to reflect on the lives of the beautiful children they have lost due to violence," said Tim Makris, executive director of Sandy Hook Promise. "No mother should have to bury her child. That is why this year we are asking the public to stand up across the country and pledge to help prevent more mothers from suffering this senseless loss."

While a loss of such epic proportion can make everyone around it feel helpless, Sandy Hook Promise has a small way to show our support. The foundation created a digital ecard with the message "We mourn your loss and promise to do all we can to prevent tragedies like this from happening ever again" and space for you to write your own note of support. We encourage you to sign the card, share it on social media, and pass it along to friends and family. Let these very special moms know that they have not been forgotten, five months after suffering from their unimaginable losses.

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The First Lady on Talking to Our Kids About Newtown

This morning, First Lady Michelle Obama issued an open letter to parents on the topic of talking to our children about the tragedy in Newtown, CT.


This morning, First Lady Michelle Obama issued an open letter to parents on the topic of talking to our children about the tragedy in Newtown, CT. We've published her words below in their entirety, in hopes that they'll provide comfort and guidance during this sad and difficult time for our nation.

Dear parents,

Like every American, Barack and I are absolutely heartbroken about the unspeakable tragedy that occurred last week in Newtown, Conn. And like so many of you, our first reactions were not as a President and First Lady, but as a Mom and Dad. We were asking ourselves, what if this had been our town, or our school, or our girls?

And we know that all across the country, it's not just adults who are asking questions right now — our children are looking for answers as well. Like us, they want to know, why did this happen? Could it happen again? And as parents, all of us can take the time to hold our kids close and talk with them about the things that truly matter: our love for them, the importance of extending that love to those affected by this tragedy, and how that love truly defines our great American community.

Click here to continue reading the rest of the first lady's letter

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Snowflakes For Sandy Hook

Imagine walking into school after Winter break and instead of seeing florescent lighting streaming down from the ceiling, your kids saw millions of paper snowflakes hanging there.

Imagine walking into school after Winter break and instead of seeing florescent lighting streaming down from the ceiling, your kids saw millions of paper snowflakes hanging there. Imagine how much more impactful that Winter wonderland would be if your student had attended Sandy Hook Elementary School and was now reentering school for the first time since the shooting.

As we first noted yesterday, the National PTA and Connecticut PTSA are asking kids and adults alike to make the most creative snowflakes they can and send them to be used in decorating the kids' new school. A great activity for even the youngest tots over their Winter break (you don't even have to explain why they are being sent there if your tots are too young to understand), snowflake creations can be sent to: Connecticut PTSA, 60 Connolly Parkway, Building 12, Suite 103, Hamden, CT 06514.

Unsure of how to begin? We've rounded up some tutorials for both novice and experienced snowflake creators alike. So pull out the paper and scissors and get to work!

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How to Support the Families Affected by the Sandy Hook School Shooting

Like most parents (or most of the nation, for that matter), we are still having trouble comprehending the events that took place on Dec.

Like most parents (or most of the nation, for that matter), we are still having trouble comprehending the events that took place on Dec. 14 at Sandy Hook Elementary School. As the nation continues to debate gun control, assault weapon bans, and funding for mental health issues, we can't take our minds off the 26 families of the victims of the Newtown shooting — let alone try to explain why it happened to our kids. We hug our kids just a few minutes longer than usual each night and wait by the school yard gate with bated breath for the closing bell to ring. With that in mind, we've rounded up some ways you can channel your grief, frustration, and time to support the families affected by the tragic shooting:

  • Send Your Condolences: The US Postal Service has established a unique Post Office Box to accept sympathy cards sent to the town. Expressions of comfort can be sent to: Messages of Condolence for Newtown, PO Box 3700, Newtown, CT, 06470
  • Make Snowflakes: Sandy Hook Elementary School students will be in a new facility when they return to school, and the National PTA and Connecticut PTSA want to turn it into a Winter wonderland decorated with as many unique snowflakes as possible. They are asking kids and adults alike to make the most creative snowflakes they can and to send them by Jan. 12, to Connecticut PTSA, 60 Connolly Parkway, Building 12, Suite 103, Hamden, CT 06514
  • Sign a Card: An online national sympathy card has already received more than 1.7 million signatures. The card will be delivered to community officials in a "respectful" way.
  • Organize a Student-Run Coin Drive: Connecticut PTSA "Sandy Hook Fund" hopes to provide ongoing support for the Newtown community. Monies raised through student-run coin drives should be donated by Feb. 14. Other student-run ways to raise money include spirit days, pajama days, walk-a-thons, and more.

Keep reading to learn more ways to give back to the Sandy Hook community, including scholarship funds set up in the victims' names.