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Pregnancy

The Real Benefit of a Baby Shower: You Are Child-Ready

A baby shower is for more than showering a mama-to-be with excitement about her impending arrival and gifting big ticket items; the celebration preps parents well in advance.

A baby shower is for more than showering a mama-to-be with excitement about her impending arrival and gifting big ticket items; the celebration preps parents well in advance. It seems that it takes a village to plan for a first baby — the nursery is ready, the layette is washed, and the rattles have been rinsed months prior to the infant's debut — but waiting for a subsequent baby is much more lax. While expecting my son, I headed to Right Start on my due date with my daughter in tow to stock up on all the items I needed for her brother-to-be. One trip and I was ready. This time around, I am really pushing the limit.

Though my doctor told me the babe was birth-ready and in place a week ago, I still haven't purchased as much as a pack of newborn diapers, despite the constant jerking of my big belly. As the mom of two, I've been so preoccupied with work and my other kiddos going back to school that nine months has felt a bit more like nine minutes. That, and there are advantages to having been been a mother for nearly six years now . . . I know Diapers.com has overnight delivery. Were you more relaxed while prepping for your subsequent children?

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Pregnancy

What to Consider When Creating a Birthing Plan

A birthing plan outlines your wishes and preferences for delivery day.

A birthing plan outlines your wishes and preferences for delivery day. If you're a first time parent — be prepared for some surprises, but having a guide allows you to process your choices before your water breaks, and the adrenaline starts pumping. It also ensures ample time to discuss options with your partner and doctor so everyone hears your wishes loud and clear before your delivery room arrival.

A.D.A.M suggests putting thought into the following:

  1. How do you feel about using medication for pain relief in labor? Do you want to try to go without pain medicine, or would you prefer to have anesthesia as early as possible?
  2. Would you like to be able to labor in a tub or shower, if one is available at your chosen birthing center or hospital?
  3. Is there anything you want to bring to the hospital? Check the hospital's guidelines about videocameras, music, pillows, lights, etc.
  4. Who do you want to be present during labor? During delivery? Is there anyone you specifically want kept out of the room?
  5. What is the role of your coach?

For the rest of the list, read more

Pregnancy

Baby Bump: What to Consider on Your Hospital Tour

Be prepared. It's the motto of the Boy Scouts and a worthy mommy mantra.

Be prepared. It's the motto of the Boy Scouts and a worthy mommy mantra. The best thing a mom-to-be can do is prepare for what lies ahead and arm herself with backup. Before you create a birth plan, pick a hospital to deliver the baby in, or decide on a home birth, you should tour the hospitals in your area.

A.D.A.M suggests paying close attention to:

  • Preregistration and check-in procedures
  • Suggestions for what to bring to the hospital
  • Policies on walking around, eating, and drinking
  • Access for the mother's "birthing coach" or other support people
  • Visiting hours for family and friends
  • Availability of neonatal intensive care facilities and trained staff

For five additional items to look out for, read more