Some new moms rush out and befriend fellow mothers once baby arrives, and other women just keep the same friends they've always had.
Some new moms rush out and befriend fellow mothers once baby arrives, and other women just keep the same friends they've always had. Sure, it's comforting to chat about life with someone in a similar stage, but there's a big bonus in sticking with your single friends
and keeping them close to your family. Here are some of the benefits:
- When you tell the kids that their "Auntie" is coming over, they squish their faces against the window and line the front door like it's a red carpet!
- She loves to give piggy back rides, partake in pillow fights, and doesn't mind marker tattoos.
- She welcomes your tots with open arms because she isn't toting all kinds of baby baggage!
- She loves to babysit or borrow your kids to test out her maternal skills without all of the responsibility.
- Children reap the reward of having another adult (who isn't a parent) to talk to about issues.
- She still has her train of thought intact and can lead you through a conversation no matter how many times it gets interrupted.
- The novelty of changing diapers, repeatedly reading the same story, and tucking tots into bed hasn't worn off for her yet.
- No matter what the occasion, her gift and presence are unrivaled.
- You don't have to schedule hanging out around nap time, mood swings, or her meals.
- You get to live vicariously through her when she fills you in on her latest date, a spontaneous trip, or pulling an all-nighter (that doesn't involve someone getting sick or having a nightmare).
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