We are bringing sexy back in a big way this Valentine's Day at LilSugar. No "schedule a date night," just tips to get you and hubby back in the sack.
Once you've conquered your first time back in the saddle, it's time to focus on gaining – and maintaining – momentum. Between a lil one's unpredictable sleep schedule, your return to the working world and daily activities, it's a wonder moms can even keep up.
Kristen Chase's The Mominatrix's Guide to Sex, A No-Surrender Advice Book for Naughty Moms offers some tongue-in-cheek humor to get you focused.
- Sleep-deprived mamas and cozy beds don't equal great sex. "When you're the mom of a small baby, you're probably running on fumes . . . you are much more likely to enjoy sex, or at least stay awake during it, if you attempt it somewhere else."
- Go to the videotape. Consider watching some porn together, either online or on video to get you in the mood (or at least loosen you up a bit). Or, if you are concerned about having the DVDs laying about, check out your cable subscriptions – HBO and Showtime offer plenty of shows that can get the job done.
- Sexting – It's not just for teens. There has been a lot of news recently about teens' use of sexting and how dangerous it can be for them. But you are an adult, so some risque texts and a few strategic photos sent to your partner could get things going when you both get home.
What do you think of Chase's tips?
Cultbeauty
Elle Passions
Armani Jeans
Kristin has solid advice. You also cannot underestimate the power of showering every day--I made a point to keep up appearances to keep the sexy vibe going. Thank god for concealer too!
1I have to say that Garnier frustis' eye roller is a miracle worker! It reduces puffiness and dark circles under the eyes so you can look more awake and vibrant without much effort or time! But for me, the best thing to keep the sex alive after each of our children has been the love and support of my wonderful husband! He's always been great about telling me how good I look to him and that he likes my saggy belly and boobs because I should have them because I've had 3 babies! He tells me he's not worried about the house not being completely clean or the laundry not being done or supper not being ready, that he understands that I'm busy and tired and that I should really be focused on the kids and not the house. For us the sex has gotten better after each child because of the bond we seem to have and the fact that we've learned to appreciate what we have right now because one day our kids won't be around leaving toys all over, making messes right where we've just cleaned, constantly demanding attention and draining us of energy. One day we will miss all that and will miss the fun that can go along with trying to fit in a little rendezvous with them around.
2Post New Comment
Please share your opinion with our community, but make sure it is on topic and follows our Community Rules. We moderate comments and prohibit personal attacks, threats, spam, lewd images, or the promotion of your personal website.