I am turning to you for advice because I am ashamed to broach the subject with my own family and friends. My sister, whom I adore, has three hellions for sons. I love my nephews with all of my heart, but it is becoming increasingly difficult for me to host them in our home. The second they walk in the door, they terrorize my cat, taunt my toddler, spill their drinks on my carpets and scream like banshees. My sister spends most of her time apologizing and picking up after them with a few threats and timeouts thrown in for good measure. I want to spend time with them but I'm afraid I'll explode on their next visit.
— Lacking Patience
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I can understand your frustration. To your credit, it sounds like you have already been patient with your sister and her children. An easy solution would be for you to go over to her house or to meet at an outside venue like the zoo or a park so her children can release some energy while not ruining your house. If you would still like to entertain them in your home, perhaps you should set up boundaries and rules for them. You can make it a fun game and set up a chart for the kids rewarding good behavior. If they follow Auntie's bylaws, perhaps they will be rewarded with a blue ribbon or ice cream at the end of the sojourn. Otherwise, a candid conversation with sis may be in your future. Chances are, she understands and is probably more mortified at their behavior than you.
— Mommy Dearest
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