First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage. But what happens when the hula dance is over and times get rough, is it time for a child or another baby? Some couples reason that an addition will bring them closer and tighten existing bonds. What many people forget is how hard committed life can be without kids. Add a crying babe (or two) to the mix and those troubled waters can get harrowing. What's your take?