Birthornot.com or the uproar over a lil boy wearing florescent pink polish on his toes – what was the most disturbing parenting story of the year? Every year our friends at TheStir.com round up the biggest baby and parenting news from the past year and map it on a "Needs a Spanking" to a "Gets a Gold Star" chart. Among the most heartwarming stories the editors have selected are the 4-month old baby that was found alive and well days after the Japanese tsunami, the Surgeon General's support for breastfeeding moms in the workplace, and the adorable Darth Vader VW commercial that aired during the Super Bowl. The list of disturbing stories is a bit more cluttered. Take a look at TheStir's matrix and tell us, which of the following would you rank as the most outrageous over the past year?