The 80s pop icon Ferris Bueller said, "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in awhile, you could miss it." Nothing could be truer — especially for a mother in labor. Sometimes work and other circumstances can keep people from enjoying irreplaceable memories like the birth of a child or the marriage of their first-born. While 63 percent of you said it was inexcusable for a father to miss their child's birth due to work, others believed in some cases it was completely acceptable. Telling her own story, Olympic gold medalist Kerri Walsh recently said:
I started my contractions the night before and just labored through the night and kissed my husband goodbye. He had to go play in a tournament... Casey got home around 5 pm and my water broke around 5:05 and then we went straight to the hospital... My husband was a really great coach and little Joey came out at 7:14 pm.
Lucky for Kerri, hubby Casey Jennings made it on time — but many women wouldn't let their partners step foot out the door as they suffered through contractions of a first birth. Would you let your spouse jet while you were in labor?
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Me? Well, just going based on how people say child birth is uncomfortable and painful, I probably wouldn't. It's good to have a support system during such a life changing event, so I think I would definitely need him by my side just to keep me sane.
I mean, sure, leave to get some food or whatever. Don't leave for the whole day!
1well it depends on why!
2not if there was a chance he couldn't come back in time! and certainly not if i didn't have someone else around like my momma
if he was going to play a tournament where he might make 2mil though, maybe!!
As long as my husband was (will be) there for the actual birth, that's all that mattered to me. I was induced twice and he was with me the entire time (with the exception of running to get food or drinks or whatnot) but I can't imagine missing the moment of your child's birth — it's beyond amazing and nothing else comes close.
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