Actor John Travolta and his wife, Kelly Preston suffered a devastating loss on Friday when their 16-year-old son, Jett, died [1]. Being predeceased by a child is a parent's worst nightmare. The mere thought of losing one's offspring is enough to bring a mother or father to tears. The reality is difficult to fathom so finding the words to appropriately comfort someone who is grieving such a loss can be hard. Here are some tips [2] to use in coping with the sensitive task of supporting a parent whose child has died.

• Behave naturally
• Show genuine concern
• Offer love patiently and unconditionally

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• Offer hugs or an arm around the shoulder, as appropriate
• Sit next to the person who wants closeness
• Make it clear that you are there to listen
• Express your care and concern
• Say that you are sorry about the loss
• Say “I love you” if you feel close enough
• Talk openly and directly about the person who died
• Cry if you feel like crying
• Keep in mind that evenings, weekends, anniversaries and holidays can be extra challenging times.

Our hearts go out to the Travolta family.
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