I hate questions like "should your child sleep with you." It's an individual decision. Some parents hate it, some thrive on it. Same kids hate it, some thrive on it. There is no "should."

We're co-sleepers and as my oldest is only 8, we've not yet set an age limit.

8 years old and sleeping with you? Just asking but hasn't that effected your marriage? I agree it is a personal choice, but at some point I think it can be counterproductive.

He doesn't every night. And we've had two more kids so we ovbiously didn't lose each other. *lol* We've never been bed people for sex anyway. They sleep with us excusively until about two years old, then get their own bed but still come in once in awhile.

It's not at all counter productive for us, although it may be for others. For us, it keeps us all happy and healthy.