no, always seemed a bit rude to me... I sure as h$ll wouldn't call myself one or plaster it on my butt.

I can only quote Tori "I-I am a M-I-L-F don't you forget M-I-L-F don't you forget M-I-L-F don't you forget baby I don't need your cash, mama's got it all in hand now."

Of course Tori is being subversive. Because of course it is insulting and offensive.

i sure hope that when i'm a mom, i'm a MILF!

Neither. I think it's just stupid.

But not as stupid as putting it on my own ass. What the hell? If it's Mom I'd Like to Eff, then isn't putting it on my own ass saying I'd like to eff myself? I don't get it.

And that woman in the photo isn't doing herself any favors by drawing attention to hers.

I hate that term, it’s incredibly immature and rude and insulting. Think about where we first heard it, On American Pie right? Where a high school kid is talking about his classmates mother. If you’re a Mom, and you still want to feel sexy, and you think that being called a MILF is flattering , your in need of help.

If my husband ever called me a MILF he would have to have endured some serious brain damage for me to forgive him.

My husband uses it all the time thinking it's some great compliment...it's not about the woman, it's about the man who thinks it. How can it be a compliment: woman I am willing to F#$%. Gosh, thanks, that's so big of you! That a man might be willing to consider someone who has given birth as being a possible sexual partner. hate it, hate it, hate it.

I'm not a mother, but I hate the term. It's fine and all to want to be seen as attractive, but it's objectifying and it's offensive. It seems the majority of the poll takers disagree, so maybe I'm just uptight. Or maybe it's different if it's the women who labels herself a MILF. Even so, I've always found any kind of label displayed across an individual's ass to be tacky.

I think it's very crude. Would we want our daughters to know that term?

It is very tacky. I wouldn't want anyone saying that to me.

Take the compliment, leave the pants.

I've been called a MILF before however I don't have kids! So I didn't take it as a comliment. I check this site out for gifts for all my friends w/ kids and right now it seems they are all pregnant or just had one!

I don't know how I'd feel if someone actually TOLD me I'm a MILF. That would be crossing the line- much like if some random person told me "I'd like to have sex with you."

But isn't this the same, but up-to-date term, as Hot Momma?

I think it is rude but I would also take it as a compliment so I am inbetween.

IMO I think it depends on who it's coming from. If it's from a random stranger that I think it's gross, but if it's my husband calling me it than I'd take it as a compliment.

Notice that all the comments are against it, who is going to defend this? it seems no one is!

I'm not against it. I don't find it offensive or condescending, just stupid. The pants, even more so.

It wouldn't bother me a bit if my husband used it, but he thinks it's as stupid as I do.

I can't believe the majority voted this term as a compliment. Pitiful, really, that so many women base their self-worth on whether or not a man wants to **** her.

I'm not a mother, but I find the term pathetic. Also, the woman in the pic is trying too hard, and she looks vulgar.

I think sexuality is very positive (when it's expressed in a natural, classy way), not when it's contrived and vulgar.

If it came from young guy (who hasn't yet learned how you should compliment a woman) I would take it as a compliment....but at the same time I'm surely not going to wear it on my butt!!

I don't like the term. I find it obnoxious. Luckily I don't think my husband knows the term. As far as a stranger calling me that? I'd probably be tempted to slap them. No one walks around telling random women they'd like to **** them, so why is it OK to say that to a woman who had a child?

i always thought the term would come from the mouths of the peers of your children- so kids of middle to high school age- which is dumb on their part and gross on yours.

It doesn't matter what you put on your butt, it looks stupid and trashy! Ladies it's enough that you have to worry about your butt let alone people looking at it trying to decipher what's on it.

Some high schoolers, possibly middle schoolers, yelled that out to me a few years ago at the mall while I was pushing my son's stroller. I thought it was funny and called my husband. His comment? "that's awesome!"

tacky on the pants. but kind of funny in certain situations.

It definitely depends on who's saying it. Among friends, or my husband that's okay. But I sure as heck wouldn't wear it as an article of clothing.

Those pants look rediculous. Who wears this stuff?

I figure the people wearing these are the same people thinking that since Britney, Christina and Nicole are having babies that it is "cool" or stylish to have kids.

I've never liked the term.

And those pants are just way too tacky.

trashy!

I hate the term, but if you have to put it on your ass...maybe you are not one.

At it's core, the term "milf" seeks to separate women who have children into two groups: those who are "worthy" of sexual attention, and those who are not. f*ck that.

Star-Bellies Sneetches, as it were.

I take the compliment from my husband and my girlfriends (when they say, "You're a MILF!) But seriously, no one needs words across their @ss except teenage girls - and that's really something that I find a bit tacky...

I'd take it as a compliment if I was older, but since I'm just 24 I'd be offended if someone thought I was already older and a mother. Milf is a funny sounding word, and it's nice to know others find you attractive. Our [American] culture makes older women out to be less attractive, and that childbirth stigmatizes someone as unappealing and untouchable, and the MILF term flips these stereotypes on its head, so it's empowering. Those were my personal reasonings for choosing it as a compliment.

It is a pathetic excuse to feel good about yourself! And further, I find it somewhat gross to think a woman is glad that her son's friends want to "F" her! Women proud to be called MILF should have their heads checked!