Ben Murphy and a couple of his buddies, started a TheFatherLife [1] for dads that love their kids, but aren't willing to surrender themselves.

The free online men's magazine covers topics from how to help a wife with postpartum depression [2] to kids and football [3] for good guys who double as great dads.

• Who is the lil love of your life?
  My wonderful wife and our two girls; Emma, age 4 and Erin, 18 months.
• Which came first, the baby or the blog?
  The baby. TheFatherLife.com actually came about because I had kids and was looking for a men's magazine geared towards fathers --- and there wasn't one. So myself and a couple of friends started TheFatherLife.com!

To see what Ben misses most about his pre-baby days, .

• What was the most shocking part of becoming a parent?
  No sleep.
• If you could have one aspect of your pre-baby days back, but keep the kids, what would you choose?
  Being in shape.
• At what moment did you fall in love with your child?
  Before they were even born.
• Do you have Valentine’s Day plans?
  Laying low (hey, "doing nothing" is a welcome break from the normal craziness of small children!)
• Anything else you want to add?
  Ladies, tell your husbands about us!